Pascale & guests…in the garden…

The art of living a happy, balanced life…they should teach fulltime classes in it…I bet Pascale Naessens would pass all of them with flying colours. For those abroad where the name doesn’t immediately ring a bell, she’s the best selling culinairy author in Belgium and for many years has been on a crusade to promote a simple pure lifestyle. Next to pure, simple ingredients and healthy living she’s a passionate ceramics artist, furniture and kitchenware designer and extremely keen on anything outdoors. For almost a year she had set her mind on throwing a huge garden party where all her passions would merge and could inspire others. Partnering up with selected like-minded partners and brands past weekend Kappelen’s Wolvenbos was the perfect green stage to host Pascale & Guests…

Feeling Magazine cover Pascale&Guests
Spicy girls on cover! Photo credit Feeling Magazine

together with my friend Kathleen we immersed ourselves in the world according to Pascale…both chronic pain patients we both know how important it is to maintain a healthy body and mindset. We had every fibre, pore, and all our senses open to absorbe the good life…hope below photos give proof we did to the fullest!

Wolvenbos Kapellen event Pascale&guests
Wolvenbos castle & event location

Lots of workshops could be followed, some needed pre-registration, some were free accessible like this ceramics try-out…had to post Kathleen’s work of art, mine was a disaster ;-)))

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Throughout terrain plenty of cosy corners to relax, follow interesting lectures, have a healthy snack or drink,…

Sips of Grace natural water flavours healhy
Sips of Grace water flavours

 

Stands were implemented into domain with respect for existing green structures and great eye for detail and host and her husband took time to have a chat…

Pascale&Guests ceramics tableware

 

 

 

Pascale’s husband Paul, journalist and tv-maker, photo credit @kvbendeg

 

…and if you felt an afternoon nap was necessary after all that fresh outdoor air, nothing beats a Velda bed in open forest, right?!

Velda bed outdoors event

 

Biggest wow to us was the ‘Secret Garden’ area, stage for the yoga classes and more zen and nature inspired sessions…we had a relaxing treat in the Rituals corner where hammocks and skilled hostesses awaited us…

Rituals

Rituals head massage treatment

yoga classes outdoors
Yoga classes with Evy Gruyaert

Need I say more? We had the most wonderful day and returned home with a big outer and inner smile!

 

 

Cheers to the good life!

Ingrid

xxx

 

Pascale&Guests

About Pascale Naessens

Markt1 ceramics

Naturalself

Rituals

Feeling Magazine

Wolvenbos

Sips of Grace

 

Guided walks…the fun kind…

Walking discoverer or discovering walker, call me what you want…always great exploring a familiar city with a new set of eyes. That city is Mechelen, situated south of Antwerp, Belgium, and when I mention ‘guided city tour’ some of you probably start to sigh…now hold it, not just any random dull tour. It’s called the ‘fun tour’ ( plezante wandeling in Dutch) for a reason…

City Hall

Ferre and Rudi are experienced city guides, when you have been enthusiastically guiding people around for more than 30 years, I think you’ve earned that title, right?! The ‘fun tour’ is normally only open to groups however each year some days are reserved for individuals, as was yesterday evening and together with my friend Birgit I joined in.

In about 2,5 hours Ferre and Rudi take you around their city, with covered distance limited (1,5km). Their approach mixes street theatre, cabaret, poems, jokes and documented stories, everything told/sung in juicy local dialect.

‘As gao paost da dɘ paos an ao paost’ (local dialect, the fun factor would go lost in translation, sorry)

Without giving away too much (in case you want to take part in a tour yourself) you’ll learn more about why St-Rombouts cathedral has darker colour on top, the link between Charles V and pub ‘Den Beer’, the odd sculptures on city hall facade and why locals eat sweet pastry called ‘Astridjes’.

Black and white cathedral
Three colourful facades middle wooden aka ‘de Duiveltjes’ (little devils)

 

As the charm of the tour consists of the fact of it being in local dialect, it is not offered in English. However, as often, when stepping on foreign ground, some words in local tongue are always appreciated, so start practising 😉 Need help to get familiar with the local sounds and how to keep your driver’s license at the same time? Dialect Mechelen

Did you know there are even special courses to learn the dialect?

How about where you live? Is it encouraged to speak local or regional language?

Ingrid

xxx

 

Plezante Wandeling

Visit Mechelen

Doha: Qatar’s shining pearl, part 2

 

Ready for some more Doh(a)dventures? If you missed the first part, you can check it out here:Doha: Qatar’s shining pearl, part 1

 

  • Katara Cultural Village

Katara Doha

If you have a bit of interest for arts or some creativity running through your veins this is the place to be: a succesful marriage of heritage and contemporary arts in a breathtaking setting. Art galleries, festivals, shops, musea, amphitheatre, golden masjid, restaurants, planetarium, too much to mention. Do check out their website for upcoming events if you are planning a visit and would definitely advise to spend at least half a day (if not a whole day) there.

Katara Doha

Mosque Katara

Katara Doha

In the Centre of Katara you can find Gandhi’s Three Monkeys by Subodh Gupta, a series of three sculptures with military headgear. Each piece is made of cooking instruments, used pails, traditional Indian lunch boxes and glass bowls. Together, they recall Gandhi’s famous visual metaphor-the three wise monkeys-representing the ‘see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil’ proverb…

 

 

 

 

Katara Doha

 

Don’t miss the pigeon towers…Poop collection: smelly(probably) but in this case very attractive(definitely) business and another win(g)k to the region’s cultural history. Like in most Middle-Eastern countries, in the past, pigeon’s poop was considered liquid gold as its composition made it an excellent fertilizer.

Katara Doha

 

  • scyscrapers: tall, taller, tallest 
    Torch Doha
    The Torch

    You can find the tallest building in Doha in the Aspire Zone. 300m high this one offers 360-degree panoramic views and a cantilevered pool on the 19th floor in case you want to find out what it feels like to float 80m above ground.

 

‘Sometimes you gotta zig when eyeryone else is zagging…’

 

…One (there are two of them) of the ‘Zigzag towers’, or dancing towers. Close to our hotel and Lagoona mall.

Highest and most colourful towers can be found in West Bay area and can best be observed from the water, during a typical dhow boat cruise.

West Bay area Doha

Doha Qatar

Doha by night

 

‘all that glitters is not gold…’

Without any doubt jaw-dropping infrastructures, the more reason the extremely dangerous conditions the builders work in and their ridiculously low pay should continue to be brought under attention.

 

    • show me your green (and blue) zones

 

Aspire Park

    • Aspire Park

Did you think Doha was only sand? Well Qatar definitely is but its capital tries very hard not to be. The city focusses on implementing green zones with a versatile function: playgrounds for children, picnic areas, green hills, tracks for joggers or cyclists, etc…

Aspire Park

Where Aspire Park is Doha’s biggest park (and next to Aspire Zone’s Stadium and Villaggio Mall shopping complex) and has plenty of green zones and even an artificial lake, it is its vastness that may effect the ‘cosy-factor’. All depends on your personal interests. We were rather fond of the Al Bidda Park and walkway. After our visit of MIA (see part 1) we walked part of the Corniche and Corniche Park (7 km waterfront promenade and green zone offering Doha Bay vues) upto Firestation, a creative hub and great place to have lunch. They offer residency projects for upcoming artists. From there we did the walk back to old city centre through Al-Bidda park which runs pretty much parallel with the Corniche.

The Pearl monument and fountain can be found on the Corniche at the entrance of the dhow harbour. Where Qatar nowadays gets its wealth from oil and gas, it used to be from pearl diving and fishing industry.

typical dhow crossing Doha Bay
typical dhow crossing Doha Bay
lunch at Firestation Doha
art installations and exhibitions at Firestation
my aunt and uncle, hubby and me in Al Bidda Park

 

More green? MIA Park, Dahl Al Hammam Park, Oxygen Park, hotel parks and many more…

 

  • and yes, if you insist, some sand too…

 

sand dunes Sealine Beach (Mesaieed)

From Doha a short drive to Al Wakrah and then further inland plenty of sand dunes await. We drove in the dunes behind Sealine Beach. If you want to go dune bashing yourself and you are not familiar hire an experienced driver (safety first, always) and avoid weekends. Fun road side distraction: camel rides, falcon tête-à-tête and photo opportunities.

Both Sealine Resort and Al Wakrah souq definitely worth a stop, only make sure your visit does not overlap the souq shops’ closing time early afternoon as we found place rather desolated then.

Since early May 2019 Al Wakrah and Doha city centre are connected through red metro line which will make travel between them a lot easier. This is the first line implemented, three more planned to become operational.

 

  • Skipped due to lack of time but still on our to do list for when second time around:

 

visit State Grand Mosque

visit the planetarium at Katara

inland sea Khor Al Adaid

National Museum (that officially opened just after we left)

Banana Island Resort

Al Shaqab tour – breeding and training centre Arabian horses

Like I said in the intro of my first post, Doha, and Qatar in general, has probably not highlighted (yet) on your travel radar and yet it should…though you will find numerous articles telling you there is not that much to see or do, I strongly disagree and hope both my posts helped showing that.

 

Ingrid

xxx

 

Some practical info:

 

Doha is the capital of Qatar, located on the Arabian Peninsula. It shares borders with only one country, Saudi Arabia.

Time to go: November upto March (too hot and too humid outside this period)

Currency: Qatari Riyal

Language: Arabic is official language but most people speak English.

We flew Qatar Airways and thumbs up on all levels. Taxi is fastest way to reach city centre. We always used Karwa Taxi and found them reliable and cheap.

Doha is not exactly pedestrian-friendly, so be careful when crossing the street.

The implementation of the state of the art metro system will be a huge jump forward when it comes to connectivity. And of course looking towards FIFA World Cup 2022 all stadiums will be linked.

We stayed at Grand Hyatt Doha, close to Katara and The Pearl. Luxurious rooms with large balcony and a great pool area. One of the capital’s top Thai restaurants, Isaan, is located in the hotel. You can opt for breakfast in the hotel or go to opposite Lagoona Shopping Mall for a quick snack or to get your daily supply on fresh fruits or snacks.

As for food and drinks, know that the only place you can drink or buy alcohol in public is in five star hotels (except Ramadan) and it is very expensive. Opt for one of the tasty mocktails, you won’t regret it. Foodwise, the world will come to your plate, no worries. The choice in restaurants and world cuisine is endless: Armenian, Lebanese, Thai, Italian, Turkish, Persian,…

 

Qatar Airways

Visit Qatar – Tourist info

Katara Cultural Village

Aspire Zone

Firestation

Grand Hyatt Doha

Some restaurants we can recommend:

Isaan- Thai

Parisa – Persian – In Souq Waqif ( breathtaking interior too)

Mamig – Armenian/Lebanese in Katara Cultural Village

 

 

 

 

 

 

Doha: Qatar’s shining pearl, part 1

When I told people a few months ago we were going to Doha, some eyebrows were raised and deep think wrinkles appeared…eeeuuuhm, yes, Doha…and where’s that exactly??? Indeed Doha is not on the average tourist’s travel radar…local tourist board and Qatar Airways have been investing heavily past years as passengers in transit with more than five hours to spend are offered a city tour. However Doha, capital of the richest country in the world, is well worth a full trip on its own with lots of cultural highlights and must sees. 

In case you are wondering how Doha lighted up on our travel radar, well I’m lucky to have family living and working all over the world and one of them happens to be a pilot for Qatar Airways. This was a family reunion visit and a heart-warming and very much enjoyable escape to the sun, in what was at that time full Winter season in Belgium (we went early February). The warm embrace of family and an inspiring culture…thé best combination!

one happy family-the reunion
one happy family-the reunion

Need inspiration yourself or an excuse to plan a trip to the Middle East? Do foreign cultures trigger your enthousiasm to explore? Continue reading to find some top excuses for a trip to Doha!

Excellent as early Spring or Fall break and sun guaranteed!

With temperatures around 25 degrees Celcius, Doha is an great travel destination to plan somewhere between November and end of March. ( too hot and too humid outside this period) Don’t forget to bring a sweater as temperature drops quickly when sun sets and especially near the coastline where there’s always some wind it can become rather chilly.

Ok, enough talking, who wants to see some photos?

Join me in some of what we considered some of the highlights of our trip:

 

  • Souq Waqif

Souq Waqif

No better place to mingle with the locals and absorb the endless array of flavours and colours! Perfect for souvenir hunting (don’t forget to bargain!) or sit with a cup of coffee or mocktail  of your choice and watch the world go by.  Plenty of restaurants for lunch or dinner. (as for the mocktails a whole new world opened up: the choice and the powerful flavours make you forget about the no-alcohol rules, I swear) If you are the ‘shop-stroll-sit-absorb-eat-relax-taking your time type’ expect to spend a full day here or like we did a half one and returned for another half. The outdoor part still gives you a sense of direction where the indoor part leads you into a labyrinth where you’ll find everyhing from textile to food, decoration, animals, etc…

 

Souq Waqif

Souq Waqif

Souq Waqif

Souq Waqif

Souq Waqif

Souq Waqif

Souq Waqif

Souq Waqif

 

  • Explore The Pearl  (incl Porto Arabia and Venice-like Qanat Quartier)

Big, bigger, high, higher, shiny, more shiny, luxurious and then think over-the-top…the world is not enough when it comes to the Pearl. Does it feel artificial? Yes well, let’s not forget it is indeed an actual man-made island!

Difficult when walking first time here to get an idea of where you are exactly, so do check out The Pearl interactive map.

Porto Arabia The Pearl

Qanat Quartier

Qanat Quartier

Medina Central The Pearl

Qanat Quartier Dona The Pearl

Explore QQ (Quartier Qanat) on foot or by boat. Try to avoid Fridays and Saturdays, these are the weekend days in Doha and found the Quarter just a bit too desolated then.

And don’t forget to catch a glimpse of the beautiful bronze horse sculpture at the Kempinski hotel.  It is designed by a Doha-based Iraqi artist to honour the tradition and cultural importance of the Arabian horses. Not hard to believe it took more than four weeks to install because it weighs over 45t and is almost 60ft tall! If you have the time and/or money to step inside (the hotel, I mean, not the horse) an additional world of heritage and Arabian culture will open up as the interior is said to be absolutely stunning!

Kempinsky Doha horse

 

  • MIA, Museum of Islamic Art

MIA Doha

As a museum it represents Islamic art from three continents and this over a time period of 1400 years. Admission is free (!) and must say as a non-museum person it is worth the visit, if not for the collections ( beautiful ceramics, sculptures,etc…), then go for the unique architecture and location of the museum itself! Or just relax and have a drink by the stunning ceiling-high window and admire the view on the Gulf and West Bay area. The oculus all the way in the top catches the light which is then diffused by the perforated chandeliers. Unfortunately I am not such a gifted photographer that I can register with my camera the magic and beauty that unfolds before my eyes, though do hope the below shots give a hint….You can find MIA at the end/Beginning of so-called Corniche (Waterfront) and near Souq Waqif so you can easily combine these.

MIA Doha

MIA Doha

MIA Doha

MIA Doha

MIA Doha

MIA Doha

Catch your breath and have it taken away at the same time…

(one of the slogans strolling through the Qatar Airways on-flight tourism commercials. At our outbound flight I was sceptic, later I knew better…)

MIA Doha

 

Join me next time when I tell you more about the Corniche stroll (that is the waterfront walkpath), Katara Cultural village, and some more fun involving sand and a camel. Did I mention we were only 6 days in Doha? Ha, bet you didn’t think there was that much to see and do, right?!

We stayed at Grand Hyatt Doha which I  can highly recommend, it is close to The Pearl and Katara Cultural Village. More on the practical stuff to follow with second post.

Grand Hyatt Doha

Stay tuned!

Ingrid

xxx

 

Visit Qatar

Qatar Airways

Souq Waqif

The Pearl

MIA

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Looking back…

These first days of the brand new year hold lots of hope and promises and looking forward, we can’t help looking back: to remember what’s worth remembering and to quickly dismiss what’s worth forgetting.

Join me on this little 2018 retrospective:

 

‘The only time you should ever look back is to see how far you’ve come’

 

Jan-Feb

Similar to nature, the hibernating months…also ‘let’s quickly forget’ months with lots of hospital visits, insecurity on the thyroid matter and ongoing back-related problems. Fast forward, shall we?!

Frozen field February

Mar-Apr

Comes Spring, comes joy…and midweek breaks! We, that is husband and me, visited cosy Maastricht in the Netherlands and vibrant London and in own garden colourful bluebells reign

Maastricht 2018

 

 

London Notting Hill April 2018

May-Jun

Refuelled we kept chasing sunshine with a trip to Belgian seaside, local food festivals  and wonderful Valletta, European cultural capital 2018, on the island of Malta.

De Haan

 

Three Cities Tour Malta

 

Three Cities tour Malta

Jul/Aug

Returning from Malta brought feet quickly back onto the ground: in full Summer mode my inner cruise control broke down and some weird health issues (on top of the existing back problems) surfaced.

Only a short birthday trip to Utrecht, Netherlands, and a lot of trips to doctor’s office.

 

Summer Utrecht 2018

Son Nick went to Madrid with srps.me and had his wallet stolen on last day, drama, drama, though still mr cool guy here

Approching end of August, and luckily feeling a bit better again, in own country, sun was still spreading glorious warmth though the various tasting festivals at wine estates, and the daily growing in size of our own home grapes gently suggested Autumn was on it’s way.

grapes garden

And house cat Wiskie closely watches them shift colour…or not…those afternoon naps are important too, right?!

 

Together with shooting partner-in-crime Eddy I explored Tervuren…

Tervuren poppy installation

…and joined EffenWeg on some inspiring nature walks.

Sept/Oct

Again most trips were to and from hospital, pain at full force peaking-level.

Had to check calendar, but had one (wow!) sort or less doable weekend/week in those two months, and we used that to explore Flanders Westhoek while staying at marvellous B&B ‘Ons Content’ and another shooting trip with Eddy…when I’m more or less well, or at least something that comes close to that definition in my book, it’s all about making the very best of those little getaways!.

CWxRM Palingbeek Ypres

 

Nov/Dec

Short getaway nature break to Luxemburg’s inspiring Müllerthal. The below photo might seem idyllic and as far as surroundings and company it was of course but with balance and vision letting me down walking took a lot of effort and often needed a walking stick, fortunately branches à volonté in the woods 😉

Back home finally some answers on the health issues: got MS diagnosis and immediate start-up of the medication to prevent further deterioration.

Had a fun and inspiring photoshoot Life-Live, a project that you can read all about here Up, close and personal…

 

Beaufort Luxemburg

 

‘Everything has changed and yet I am more me than I have ever been’

 

 

And now what?

 

…We’ll set course for the good life and navigate around the obstacles as best as possible

 

no fixed plans yet this year holiday-wise, so all options are open, except for a fun and kinda last-minute trip coming up very very soon (read Febr): hubby and myself will be spending some time in Doha, Qatar, together with my aunt and uncle we’ll be visiting my nephew (their son) who lives there, so that will be a family reunion embraced by loved ones and warmth of the sun, the best kind!

Ingrid

xxx

 

 

 

 

 

Up, close and personal…

Het wordt niet veel persoonlijker dan dit, dus voor één keertje schrijven we ook eens in het Nederlands. Want to read the English version? Scroll down and start reading below the photos.

Eerder dit jaar las ik in een lokale krant een artikel en oproep door fotograaf Jo de Groote.  Net aan een nieuw project begonnen, Life-Live, zocht hij kandidaten voor een shoot. Niet zozeer de oproep maar het onderwerp en kadering trokken mijn aandacht: Jo zocht kandidaten voor een reeks rond personen met beperkingen, lichamelijke of emotionele, zichtbare of onzichtbare met als doel een portrettenreeks te brengen waarbij de persoon in kwestie en zijn plek in het leven en de maatschappij centraal staan, met de beperking slechts subtiel aanwezig, niet als hoofdrolspeler. Het bewuste artikel vind je hier Jo De Groote – Hannelore Vens

Eigenlijk moest ik daar helemaal niet lang over nadenken; ik stuurde Jo een mailtje en enkele weken later zaten we al samen om concrete afspraken te maken. Een risico zou je kunnen denken, want je gooit je ziel toch deels te grabbel, en die schermen we net zo graag af, bang om gekwetst te worden in een maatschappij waarin heel erg op uiterlijkheden wordt gefocust. Na het eerste gesprek met Jo wist ik echter al dat het goed zat: hij heeft een groot inlevingsvermogen, is enorm geïnteresseerd in maatschappelijke thema’s en ons persoonlijk aandeel daarin en kijkt voorbij wat aan de oppervlakte ligt.

Diegenen die mijn verhaal (nog) niet zo goed kennen: ik ben 47 en lijd al sinds mijn tienertijd aan scoliose, dat is een vergroeiing van de ruggengraat, bij mij in ernstige mate. Ik onderging verschillende operaties tussen mijn 14 en 19 jaar en had de pech dat een infectie op het fusiemateriaal roet in het eten gooide waardoor het eindresultaat van de operaties helaas niet het beoogde was. Mijn ruggenwervels werden gefixeerd met uitzondering van de twee onderste, wat natuurlijk een beperktere mobiliteit met zich meebrengt en doorheen de jaren kwamen er een heleboel aanverwante en afgeleide klachten bij. Naast de chronische dagdagelijkse pijn heb ik veel uitstralingspijnen naar de benen, nek en schouders en ook acute hevige pijnaanvallen die variëren van een halve dag tot drie dagen. Ik ga al meer dan tien jaar naar de pijnkliniek en dat haalt doorgaans de scherpe randjes er wat af, maar dan nog…er zijn zo van die dagen…

…Op zo’n dagen scroll ik al eens gemakkelijk door fotoalbums op zoek naar beelden met een happy vibe of waar voor mij een mooie herinnering aan vast hangt, daar trek ik me dan aan op. Ergens heb ik het geluk dat mijn aandoening redelijk te camoufleren valt, mits wat op mijn houding letten en slim met laagjes werken. De kans is klein, als we elkaar op straat zouden kruisen, dat je er iets van merkt, tenminste toch niet op één van de goeie dagen, de andere zal je het wel merken (Soms is dat niet-zichtbare echter een nadeel, want veel mensen redeneren ‘wat je niet ziet, is er niet’ en kunnen dan weinig begrip opbrengen).

Eén ding kan je echter maar moeilijk wegstoppen hoeveel laagjes je ook gebruikt en dat is het verdriet of de uitputting door pijn, dat laat zijn sporen na…Als je als fotograaf in staat bent om iemand die pijn eventjes te laten vergeten, waardoor je als persoon terug meer op de voorgrond komt…dat is een kunst én geschenk van onschatbare waarde!

Voor deze reeks werkt Jo samen met Veerle, allround assistente en haar dochter Anke, een jonge talentvolle fotografe die simultaan ‘behind-the-scenes’ beelden schiet, wat een extra dimensie geeft aan het eindresultaat. Daarnaast komt zij trouwens zelf ook aan bod in de reeks, maar dan voor de camera.

Tijdens de voorbereidende gesprekken en doorheen de shoot merk je de grote gedrevenheid van Jo en zijn teamgenoten. Zij stellen alles in het werk zodat er een relaxte sfeer is en je je ten allen tijde comfortabel voelt. Hij steekt enorm veel werk in de voorbereiding: de shoot moet niet enkel mooie plaatjes opleveren; bedoeling is dat je er een positief gevoel aan overhoudt; iets waar je achteraf met een glimlach kan op terugblikken en kracht kan uit putten. Voor iedere kandidaat wordt in overleg een scenario uitgewerkt, niet als strak keurslijf, meer als houvast. Wij zijn dan ook geen professionele modellen hé, een beetje richtlijn is dan altijd handig 😉 Ook na de shoot houdt Jo contact en krijgt hij graag feedback: hoe was de ervaring? Tevreden over het resultaat? Etc…

Elke shoot vindt plaats op een locatie in of rond de stad Mechelen en kleding, accessoires, e.d. worden bereidwillig ter beschikking gesteld door lokale handelaars. Toch even benadrukken dat dit project niet door buitenaf gefinancierd wordt en de kandidaten op vrijwillige en kosteloze basis meewerken alsook de handelaars die hun medewerking verlenen.

Mijn locatie voor de shoot was het prachtige Martin’s Patershof Hotel, een voormalige minderbroederskerk in het historisch hart van Mechelen en met de bewaarde booggewelven en glas-in-lood-ramen een prachtige setting. Kleding werd voorzien door Scruples Life en de handgemaakte hoeden en handtassen door Awardt, beide eveneens gevestigd in Mechelen.

Echt niet zo eenvoudig hoor, model zijn, en best vermoeiend, maar naarmate de middag vorderde kreeg ik er hoe langer hoe meer plezier in! Heb het me nog geen seconde beklaagd dat ik heb deelgenomen en kan mezelf terugvinden in alle foto’s: soms met een lach, soms met een vleugje tristesse en ja, met een flinke dosis glamour, da’s een instant oppepper! Oh ja, en die rug zit er ook ergens tussen natuurlijk, maar voor een keertje was die niet belangrijk!

Deze shoot brengt de schoonheid en kracht naar boven die in elkeen van ons zit en ben zeker dat de anderen dat ook zo zullen ervaren.

Misschien zijn onze zwakke punten net wel onze grootste kracht!

Dit ben ik…en ik leef mijn leven…mét terug een klein beetje vleugels, 

waarvoor oprechte dankjewel aan Jo, Anke en Veerle!

 

Hieronder alvast enkele sfeerbeelden…alle foto’s ©Jo Photography en ©Fotografie AnkeVh

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Wanneer alle shoots klaar zijn (voorjaar of midden 2019) wil Jo graag een expositie organiseren. Weet jij de ideale expositieruimte? Woon of werk je in Mechelen en is dit een project waar je je in kan vinden en je op één of andere manier wil aan verbinden?  Aarzel niet om Jo te contacteren. Of misschien voel je je net als ik wel aangesproken en stel je je graag kandidaat voor de reeks? degrootej.16@gmail.com

 

Up, close and personal, and yes,this post is as personal as it gets…

Earlier this year I responded to an article in a local newspaper where photograpler Jo de Groote launched a call for candidates for a shoot as he had just started his new project, Life-Lived. Not the shout-out as such, but the topic caught my attention: Jo was searching for people with disabilities or limitations, physical or emotional, visible or hidden. Goal is to bring a series of portraits and story-telling photos where not the disability, disease or limitation plays first violin. A series of photos with room for vulnerability but showing great strength too like the first shoot in the series Jo did with Hannelore Jo De Groote – Hannelore Vens

To be honest, it didn’t take me long to consider, I sent him a mail and a few weeks later we got together to discuss the concept and get to know each other…stepping into an adventure, an opportunity and bit of uncertainty…deal is to show that glimpse of your soul that is vulnerable, that part of you you otherwise carefully protect or hide in fear of getting hurt in today’s society, extremely focussed on outer appearance. After our first meeting I knew I didn’t need to worry: Jo has a strong moral compass, ability to empathize and is highly interested in interaction between the individual and society, putting well-being first.

For those of you who aren’t familiar with my story: I am 47 and have severe scoliosis. I had multiple surgeries and multiple bad luck too as due to an infection end result was not what it should have been. All vertebrae, except below two, are fixed what reduces mobility of course. Over the years complications and side-effects showed: I have chronic pains on a daily basis, radiating pains in legs, neck and shoulders and severe acute pain attacks mowing me down for half a day up to three days. Have been visiting pain clinic for over ten years and the treatments take off the edge, still, some days…

…on such days I often scroll through photos in search for the happy vibes and good memories; it gives me energy, strenght and hope. In some way I can consider myself lucky: for the major part my condition can be camouflaged if I choose my clothes carefully and use layers. If our paths would cross, you probably wouldn’t even notice…well, that is on a good day, the other days, there’s no mistake, you’ll be able to tell!  There is however one thing that can not be hidden, no matter the amount of layers used and that is the feeling of exhaust the pain brings…it leaves its marks…as a photographer being able to let someone forget about the pain so that the person steps out again into the spotlight, now that is a true gift and a priceless one!

For this series photographer Jo is assisted by Veerle and her daughter Anke, with Anke being a young, talented photographer shooting simultaneously and giving a unique ‘behind-the-scenes’ as well as stepping in front of the camera herself.

During our first meeting and throughout the entire shoot, Jo’s enthusiasm en passion for what he does clearly shows. Shooting on location and not in a studio creates opportunity for more interaction. He and his team make sure there’s a comfortable ambiance at all times and a lot of time is spent on preparation too, because at the end of the shoot the goal is not to just have some pretty photos, no, they should give you that so important feeling of positivity, something to look back on smiling and giving you energy. A visual tool to remind you of your strength. For every participant a scenario is worked out, not as something to strictly follow, more as a guideline…after all we’re not professional models and always helpful to have something to fall back on. Contentment in every way is high on Jo’s priority list and he keeps contact after the shoot to inform if experience and result meet the expectations. As for me double check on all levels!

For each shoot a different location in historic town of Mechelen is chosen. Clothing and accessories, etc were willingly lent by local shops and dealers. Maybe important to point out that this project is not funded in any way and the people participating do this willingly and are not paid, same goes for the dealers and shops that stepped in.

My location was the stunning Martin’s Patershof Hotel, former church in historic heart of Mechelen. The preserved arches and stained glass windows make it a unique shooting setting. Shots were taken in one of the rooms, hallway and lobby. Clothing was lent out to us by Scruples Life, many thanks Marina for your assistance, and hats and bags, all handmade, were from Awardt. Both stores located in Mechelen.

I can tell you being a model is not that simple as it looks and pretty exhausting at times, however got the hang of it as time flew by. Am so glad I took this opportunity and can honestly say I can recognise myself in each photo: sometimes with a smile, sometimes melancholic and yes, with a dash of glamour…instant feel good boost guaranteed! Oh, yes, almost forgot, there’s the back of course, but not in the spotlight!

For me, and am sure this goes for all participants, the shoot brings out the beauty and strength there is in each one of us.

Maybe our weaknesses are our greatest strength!

This is me…living my life…and a little bit of wings were added, 

for which, from the bottom of my heart, my sincere thanks Jo, Anke and Veerle!

 

Want to know more about the project or feel you can contribute? Please feel free to

contact degrootej.16@gmail.com

 

Ingrid

xxx

 

Hotel Martin’s Patershof

Awardt

Scruples Life

Jo de Groote photography

Fotografie Anke Van Haesendonck

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Müllerthal Fall break

Luxemburg’s Müllerthal region is where we found ourselves last week: a little nature break in an impressive geological and green mini paradise nicknamed Little Switzerland….

We stayed in Hotel Meyer in Beaufort with start of many hiking tours and Beaufort’s renaissance castle within walking distance.

Beaufort Luxemburg
view on castle coming from village

 

Leading hiking track in the region is the Müllerthal trail, 112 km long and composed of three main routes linking the several villages and their natural and cultural highlights. These three routes are all connected however can just as well be hiked seperately and, if feet are not weary enough, another four extra tours complete the region’s wanderlust Erlebnis.

First day of our tip we explored Beaufort and walked part of the b1 hike starting at castle.

Beaufort Luxemburg

Beaufort Luxemburg

 

Beaufort Müllerthal

 

Beaufort Luxemburg

Day two was all rainy and windy, die-hards wouldn’t let this stop them from hiking; not that fanatic though 😉  we took a trip to nearby Trier to indulge us in warm coffee, chocolates, some shopping and local beers.

 

Day three and already final day of our nature break…sun present again so we decided to make most of this day starting off with an early morning walk in neighbouring Grundhof. With moist and rain of previous day still in the air and soil (and my bones) this gave a strange mystical feel to the forest.

Grundhof Luxemburg

From where we stood, pointing the camera in the other direction gave the below photo, and no…not a b&w one…glad Halloween was over, tiny bit creepy!

Grundhof Luxemburg

After checking out off the hotel we headed to Berdorf and saved best for last…

Berdorf Müllerthal Luxemburg

Berdorf Müllerthal Luxemburg

Berdorf Müllerthal Luxemburg

Along the trail stairs and ladders help to conquer the height differences…or you can take the more adventurous path like this young lady (not me in pic)

Berdorf Müllerthal Luxemburg

Typical are the rock formations and narrows…curious how nature formed such a mind-blowing landscape?

Millions of years ago, Müllerthal region was covered by a large sea. Over time, however, a thick layer of sand covered the clay underground. When the sea receded and water starting flowing over land, the relatively soft sandstone eroded, eventually forming a landscape of stream-filled valleys and cliffs. However, when water filters through the porous sandstone and reaches the watertight layer of clay beneath, it builds up and is trapped resulting in destabilizing the rocks around the valley edges, causing parts of sandstone to slip down the valley or break off completely.

Berdorf Luxemburg

Pretty sure that’s one of our ancestors coming peeping out of the rock…anybody else see the human head shape, or is it just me?

Berdorf Mullerthal Luxemburg

Berdorf Mullerthal Luxemburg
the Hohllay rock formation in Berdorf

Berdorf Luxemburg

Mullerthal trail Luxemburg

 

Mullerthal trail Luxemburg

Mullerthal trail Luxemburg

Mullerthal trail Luxemburg

Thirteen years since our previous visit…

Mullerthal trail Luxemburg
little trip down memory lane…

and yes…it’s still impressive!

Mullerthal trail Luxemburg

 

Ingrid

xxx

 

Visit Müllerthal

Müllerthal trail

Hotel Meyer

Auberge Rustique – cosy restaurant in Beaufort

Trier Tourism

 

 

Fall: return of the fungi

however don’t be alarmed 😉

Now that days are getting colder and shorter and the  soil is covered under a multi-textured carpet of soft rustling leaves little wonders carefully show their heads…whether leaning against a tree, feeding on dead wood or in full spotlight…I always stop to admire these wonderful fungi in all shapes and colours.

fungi

Studies showed that what controls forest diversity is not the trees but the fungi that interact with them, some are visible to us, some on a microscopic scale below ground and hidden from sight.

Join me on this walk through the park, eyes on the ground…

fungi

fungi

fungi

fungi

fungi

We have so mushroom for a fungi like you…

 

Watch your step on your next walk in nature…little recyclers at work…

Till next time!

Ingrid

xxx

 

 

 

Koch mal deutsch…#EnjoyGermanFood

Which foods and drinks come to your mind when you think of German food? Are Schnitzel, Wurst mit Sauerkraut, Glühwein and Schwarzwaldtorte on display before your eyes right now? Nothing wrong with that, however German cuisine is so much more than its clichés!

Yesterday I found myself among the lucky bloggers invited to taste our neighbouring country’s modern and versatile cuisine as Sound of C, Duitse Dienst voor Toerisme (Germany Travel) and Toeristische Dienst Nedersaksen (Niedersachsen-Tourism) joined forces to promote the culinary assets of Lower Saxony region.

Place of Venue: Antwerp’s de Serre

Mission: prepare a 5-course meal using the region’s and other German star produce

Partners in crime: guest chef Zora Koch Ma!, Saillart Catering and fellow bloggers and food lovers

 

 

After a warm welcome, short presentation of the region and touristic and culinary assets aprons were tied and knives sharpened…if we would like something to appear on those plates, we’d better get to work…last sip of wine, auf los geht’s los!

 

#EnjoyGermanFood

 

All cooks and wannabe’s 😉 were divided over kitchen isles to work in group on the different courses and this under the watchful and guiding eye of a head chef. I was at the first course isle, which was a butternut pumpkin-soup with surprising additions 😉 Saved me some arm fitness training there ’cause chopping pumpkin is serious business!

While bloggers mingled, dishes got their final touch by the chefs in charge before being presented in walking dinner formula, all occumpanied by a selection of excellent local wines of course.

 

 

 

 

#EnjoyGermanFood

 

 

If you want to see some more photos, make sure to check Sound of C fb page end of this week.

Got hungry for German cuisine and want to try yourself? Am allowed to throw a little giveaway, sorry, only for my Belgian followers here or on IG or FB, though no worries, Germany Tourism promotes through workshops in several countries so worthwile to check out the local office in your country 😉

Now, what’s to win?

  • a bottle Keth Spätburgunder, dry, 2016
  • a bottle opener (always handy, right)
  • two books: MERIAN live! Wine guide: Discover Germany’s Wine Region and KOCH!Duitse keuken anno nu

Took a little peek and the book has some wonderful recipes, like crunchy beer-battered salsify with a curry dip, duck breast with rhubarb, Schwarzwälder-kirsch muffins and the below pictured fried elderflower, yum!

 

Koch cook book Duitse keuken anno nu
One of the pages from the book…

How to win? In the village Burgdorf, close to Hannover, a 750 km (jawohl!) culinary trail starts…what delicacy am I talking about? It’s a well-known delicacy here in Belgium too, in doubt? You can find the answer here Vakantieland Nedersaksen

Tell me by 27th of Sept, follow me, that would be great of course 😉 and I’ll announce the winner on 28th.

Sad because you can’t join as non-Belgian? I noted down some great tips why Lower Saxony should be on your travel radar, so head over to Lower Saxony send me the answer and in return I’ll send over some top tourist tips, you may not get that bottle of wine but end up with some great ideas to plan a next trip, deal?

Bis nächstes Mal! (I’ll be back)

Ingrid

xxx

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

#sharingiscaring #noodrem #1813 #ikleef

Today, September 10th is World Suicide Prevention Day and maybe suicide is something you have never ever been confronted with, well, count your blessings then. However, the sad and realistic statistics show that we will all be confronted with it in one form or another…how do you recognise the signs? How do you respond when you see someone you care about or know struggle? What to say or do and what not to say?

On this special day, all over the world awareness is asked for prevention of suicide and mental health problems. Highly necessary, as is appears, only in Flanders Belgium, every day 3 persons decide to take their own lives (we have about 6,5mio inhabitants here). The number of attempts however is 10 times higher, meaning in Flanders each morning 30 persons will not make it till the next morning sunrise because they decide to end their life by suicide. These sad numbers place us very high on the European scoreboard and that is not something to be proud of. It also means at some point in time, in life, you yourself will be confronted with suicide in your direct environment. According to WHO every 40 seconds someone commits suicide…now doesn’t that deserve some of our attention and time?!

Last week, by chance, I got the opportunity to do my bit to put suicide prevention in the spotlight as Flemish comedian and singer Els de Schepper was recording a single and clip here in my hometown Aartselaar and they needed some extra people to fill up the background (little did we know at the time we actually had to sing along the chorus!!!)

noodrem 1813 ik leef zelfmoordlijn
Els de Schepper welcoming us and giving background info on the initiative

The song is called noodrem’, that’s Flemish/Dutch for ‘communication cord’, like in pulling the communication cord or emergency brake, and with it Els de Schepper and Centrum ter Preventie van Zelfdoding which is the organisation behind the call line Zelfmoordlijn wants to make this topic less heavy to talk about as it is still something that hides in the shadows, major taboo label on it. Over 30 Flemish celebrities joined forces with initiator Els and willingly participated. Kirsten Pauwels is the director of the Flemish Prevention Centre Centrum ter Preventie van Zelfdoding and she said (freely translated)”Through this song we can support people having suicidal thoughts and also their close environment; we let them know we care, giving them a message of hope and throwing them a lifeline, we won’t drop them.”

Els de Schepper herself lost two persons she cared very deeply about to suicide and strongly felt the need she had to do something, say something, step up…being a performer gives her the opportunity to raise awareness of this matter so close to her heart.

Why was my attention drawn? What’s my personal link to suicide prevention? Well, those of you who have been following this blog for a while know through some of my previous posts that I am a chronic back pain patient and this for over 35 years due to severe scoliosis. I have pain on three different levels with the acute pain attacks hitting randomly being the worst of the three. They vary from some hours to three days and needless to say I do not see the world as all wonderful and happy when undergoing a full attack. In fact I had an attack the evening after the recording ánd the day after. Luckily these heavier attacks disappear, to come back again, but at least it gives me some pause to recharge though it is often a very short break… I would be lying if I said that during such an attack I never thought: “Wouldn’t things be better if it all just ended?”, but I have never acted upon, in fact, those were millisecond thoughts, but still, they were there…it’s the pain you desperately want to end though, not your life, there is a, to me, very significant difference…I have a strong and loving  husband and son, a cat giving little licks as if he feels when I need to be cheered up, caring family and friends, I try to focus on the things that bring me joy and positivity and that keep my mind distracted. However, through what I experience myself on a daily basis I think I can somehow relate how someone who is in constant pain, physically and/or emotionally, every minute of the day and who does not have someone or something to fall back on decides that enough is enough…The lyrics of #noodrem are very powerful, taken from real life and they might help you understand what someone having suicidal or mental health issues is going through.

Tough subject, right?!, Yes, well…it is after all Monday today 😉

Let’s throw in some light: pull the communication cord and pause, that is after all the message in #noodrem…

For my English-speaking followers who kept reading till this far, on a post about a Flemish song, big thank you…will try to give you an idea of what the song is about, so you get a general feeling of what they sing about when you click on the link below.

Where the verses try to captivate the struggle, sadness, desperation, the pain, that feeling of losing control, feeling of isolation, not being understood:

living every single day with this intense pain…

sorry for me pulling the communication cord…

 

The bridge and chorus on the other hand emphasise the hope, the lifeline, that ray of light how small it may be and, most important, knowing that asking for help is nothing to be ashamed of:

I’m alive…

there’s someone who cares…

 

(Parts freely translated from #noodrem,  original Flemish lyrics ©Els de Schepper and Stefaan Fernande)

 

 

Above are some behind the scenes shots from last week’s recording day. We were welcomed and registered in by lovely Anneke, Els thanked us for our willingful participation and filled us in on the project, we got a glimpse of singer Barbara Dex and producer/director Dirk told us when it was a wrap 😉

Could not take pics inside the recording studio for obvious reasons, but studio and organisation kindly sent us all this group shot…for the curious ones, I am very hidden, on the second row, last one on the right side.

#noodrem #1813 #ikleef #zelfmoordlijn
Group shot, a big heart for those who need it

Now what you’ve all been waiting for, below is the song and clip. Feel free to share and if you’re thinking: “I don’t speak or understand Flemish, what’s the use?” Just remember: music is universal, caring about each other is universal, lending an ear, a hand, opening up your heart and giving a hug or some minutes of your time just might save someone’s life!

When sharing, and please do, please use #noodrem #ikleef (that means I’m alive) #1813 #zelfmoordlijn1813

When living in Flanders Belgium, thinking of suicide and in need of someone to talk to, you can find help with Zelfmoordlijn to be reached calling 1813 or through www.zelfmoord1813.be

 

(in Dutch that is)  Denk je aan zelfmoord en heb je nood aan een gesprek, dan kan je terecht bij de Zelfmoordlijn op het nummer 1813 of via www.zelfmoord1813.be

 

When living outside Belgium, please check out local initiatives as actions are held worldwide today and give them your support or check how you can lend a hand and you are of course very welcome to share this post!

Watch here:

 

 

#noodrem #ikleef #1813

Very warm hug and heart to all of you

Ingrid

Xxx

 

Zelfmoordlijn

Centrum ter Preventie van Zelfdoding

Els de Schepper

World Suicide Prevention Day

Werelddag Suïcidepreventie